Why are guys so elusive? Why don’t they just say what they want?
As a single woman looking for Mr Right the mixed messages sent by guys are confusing to say the least. I have a few male friends and have had romantic dalliances over the years with a couple of them. I have a few questions that need answered though.
1. Why do guys think it is okay to string single moms along?
We have feelings, we are not a lesser person just because we have kids.
2. If you’re not serious about the relationship then step away.
You are not the only fish in the sea and we will cope without you.
3. Why do guys think that because you have kids that you are up for anything?
Just because we had a thing going on once it does not mean that we are sitting on the edge of our seats waiting 1 year, 3 years or 5 years for you to come back.
We are witty, clever and caring women. Any guy would be lucky to have us in their corner. We don’t want time wasters or wimps. Mummy’s boys are a big no-no.
If you don’t have a job – we don’t want to know.
We are not here as a time filler till your Mrs Perfect walks into the room. We do not want to trap you and have more babies. We especially don’t want you if you cannot cook and clean for yourself. We are not looking for a dad for our kids.
Don’t think you can turn up at our doors unannounced expecting sex when we have not seen you, spoke to you or heard from you in 6 months to 6 years.
If any of the above strikes a chord with you take a good long look at yourself. If you can’t think of five things you can offer that would enhance the life of a single mom then just don’t go there.
If you can’t do anything better than we could do ourselves (including sex) then you aint the guy for us.